Cialis is a great medication because of what it can do for the men of South Africa and elsewhere in the world where it is available. It helps with erectile dysfunction which is a very big problem. It makes it so men can’t perform sexually, and at first this may sound trivial but it’s really not. A lack of intimacy can cause the end of many otherwise good relationships. Intimacy helps bring people closer together so is needed for most couples. If it is absent the couples start to drift apart. They don’t have that strong connection which could help keep them together. They also have emotional issues to work through and that can kill things as well. A lack of intimacy often results in hurt feelings.
If you find yourself dealing with this you can talk to your doctor about Cialis to see if it’s right for you. It’s not right for everyone. Some people are on other medications that react with Cialis. Others may have other health conditions so they shouldn’t take it. A doctor can help you to determine this so everyone is safe. Drug reactions are a big problem and should not be overlooked. You should not keep anything from your doctor at all. Make sure they know about all of the medications you currently take, even nutrition supplements and over the counter ones.
If you find your partner is experiencing erectile dysfunction you may begin to feel bad about yourself. You may feel undesirable. This is normal but you should know his condition isn’t your fault. It has a medical basis. It is nothing you can change or control. It is not based on your attractiveness or lack of it. He should see a doctor. You can’t fix it by being sexier or by trying harder. Thinking this way will set you up or failure when you try to help him and can’t.
If you are the one with the dysfunction you should know that your partner may be having emotional issues because of it. It is not their fault and really isn’t yours either, but they will probably need reassurance that you still love them and want to be close to them. You could and should communicate this fact. Let them know your feelings as well even if they’re negative. Bottling things up will hurt your relationship. There are also other forms of intimacy besides intrcourse and you may want to explore those. There is touch for example. Touch is very important in cases like these. It can help you and your partner keep your bond alive.
If you find communication too difficult you may want to try counseling. This could give you a safe space where you can talk openly. The counselor could also provide new insight and ideas for how to work on your problems together. The counselor’s job is to facilitate, not to judge you or take sides, so you can be sure you have a neutral party there. A lot of health insurance covers counseling now because of how important mental health is so you should look into whether yours does. It’s at least worth a try anyway. If it’s not for you you could quit going but many couples have stayed together because of what they learned from counseling.
Medical Practitioner (General Practice) with postgraduate diplomas in Cape Town. My special interest is erectile dysfunction.